Hi there, I wanted to talk about the ongoing debate on child support. It should be a thing of the past and the government should get rid if it or fix it. Mother’s cry to the court after a relationship, between the parties is over it’s been used as revenge too. And the child support is so darn evil they will hide the mother of a child by her request. And the father of the child will lose complete contact which is bull. So he will not know anything about the child’s growth or get to see their child. The child support system isn’t there to help families, it’s to destroy families. Mothers get a payment that doesn’t even go to the child. When the child is young the mother of the child uses the money for the party life, and the child doesn’t get that payment that’s supposed to be for the child. Some mothers are honest, but half aren’t and there’s no way to know if the child is getting the money. Some fathers can’t pay rent or live because of back payments, mothers live the party lifestyle while the fathers don’t get to see their children, even when they, both have custody it’s still the mother’s choice who stops the visit of the child. Children grow up confused and angry, and take it out on other children at school, or their parents. Creating a negative impact on the child’s life. There would be fewer school shootings, and fewer angry children, for someone who grew up without a dad figure in my life because my parents couldn’t get it right, my brother and I suffered. Thinking our dad didn’t care about us which was never the case. The child support system is broken or they don’t care to give fathers a chance to see their children grow up. We as a community should vote for child support to be of our history. They might just be t be less of broken homes if they didn’t interfere with the children’s we’ll being. Every child deserves, to know both parents not just one especially, if willing to it’s time for a change in the system. Remember to speak, positive affirmations I can do it, if I can’t I will ask for help.
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This is a painful reality for me. I haven’t seen my children since April 2010, and the resulting depression led to my medical retirement from the military. My income changed drastically, and I began to accrue debt. Currently, over 50% of my income is garnished. Although I had planned to take my ex-partner back to court when I returned to the States and discovered she was only a state away, she disappeared, and I still don’t know where they are. I have been trying to modify child support even though my ex has not made any effort to follow the court-ordered parenting plan. I need to make some calls to the state where the court order was made, as neither of us has lived there since 2011. The child support was originally set so high due to the cost of child care, but my ex was medically separated from the service and remarried, staying home to care for the children. In the 13 years since we separated, I have accumulated significant debt without hearing a word from my ex or our children. It’s nearly impossible for me to live on my own with any job that I can find, as I need to make at least $30 an hour to afford basic living expenses after half of my income is taken. Without the support of friends and family, I would be homeless and my child support debt would continue to grow. It has destroyed my finances and it has taken me over a decade to deal with it emotionally.
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Itโs hard believe me thatโs why I believe the child support system needs to be fixed or they need to get rid of it completely, keep having faith there is a God and lord may Jesus bless you greatly amen
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