Don’t act salty, my pretzels got enough salt

Hi there, I would like to talk about a topic that sometimes happens, with parents because of stressful, situations where financial issues arise or questions about one’s parenting skills. Now all of that puts pressure, on a couple or even the individual. And it’s like a kettle waiting to boil and reach its breaking point, “here comes a breakdown”. That is in tune with yelling, swearing, and calling names. Ignoring their partner’s feelings, and trying to pick an argument battle over any silly thing, for example: “uncooked pasta” fighting with everyone in the household. Not realizing they are affecting everyone with their behaviour. You are not alone it happens to the best of us when there’s pressure. Believe me, it’s total bull because we are both under pressure and I don’t go calling anyone names, even if it’s not physical it’s verbal abuse, and no one deserves it period, everyone has issues but there’s a way of dealing with it, look at one’s self in the mirror no one is a problem but yourself if you have anger problems. Their group and ways to handle things fighting everyone don’t solve anything, just makes you a bully. Pray or go for a walk, is anger worth losing everything you have? or were blessed with? Is it worth losing control? To make a point? No, it’s not worth losing everything to have an emotional breakdown. Everyone has Baggage, but it’s how you learn from past experiences, and make new healthy experiences, good choices, bring good outcomes bad choices bring bad outcomes, that you can’t fix or take back. Is it worth losing self-control? We all fall into a particular pattern, to think we are right all the time, and we fall into old childish habits. Using the F-word as the vocabulary, when we can utilize other sentences, and words. Fighting, and lashing out as children shouldn’t we have grown out of it as adults? Why give in to the bitterness, all it accomplishes nothing but make you say something you will regret later on is it worth hurting and punishing the ones you love? For build-up frustration. My advice is to talk with your partner and express, your feelings correctly, communication is the key, to a healthy relationship. Try and talk to each other before the outburst, and listen to both views on the issue you two are having. Then try and figure out the solution to the problem for both of you it’s not just one opinion. If you feel annoyed, take time apart in another area of your place, if you can’t find peace go for a walk do not drive, driving angrily is dangerous reckless, and you could get involved in road rage. Meaning yelling, and honking your horn, at other vehicles, everywhere results in speeding on the road and not paying attention to traffic regulations. Resulting in a heavy fine which could cost you a lot more than some argument. Don’t do it unless you are completely calm after your dispute. Remember we are all under the pressures of life when expressing ourselves. Try not to do it with rage turning into the credible Halk green and smashing, wailing like a banshee. zero tolerance, for that, use your words, stop cursing, especially when children are in the home. Use texting if you want to go off like that it’s private, but even in texting be respectful. Remember to speak positive affirmations, I can do this if, I can’t I will ask for help.

We all know the feeling of being neglected especially after you have a baby, have a complete understanding. In situations, it’s not easy being a caregiver, mother or dad. we all need to have patience and provide moral support for each other during a slowdown in bedroom activities, once the child gets on a schedule, can start planning that needed alone time together. Try massaging your partner’s back and feet there are other ways to show love and compassion.